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6 Herald-Times-Reporter. Manitowoc-Two Rivers, Wis. July 16, 1982 Letter from heaven complicated, costs nothing and? fi Bv Ann Landers owe us for the last loan. We can't fisure out why our wfwjtW, titT children think we are rolling in this At Peace In New Jersey, money. Our modest in- Dear N.

Thanks for an ex-vestments won't pay off until cellent alternative. If the we reach retirement age, and pprson does not die in the by then we will need every hospital, a medical school dime. should be called. The school They all have bigger incomes will give full instructions, along than ours, dine out frequently, with grateful thanks. bowl twice a week, play poker, Don't get burned by a "line" bingo and dress to the nines, that's too hot to handle.

Play it When we were their age we cool with Ann Landers' guide to didn't live like they do. "Necking and Petting What How can people like us pro- Are the Limits?" Send youpre-tect ourselves without losing quest to Ann Landers, P.O. Box the love of our children when 11995, Chicago, 111. 60611. Send we don't come across with SO cents and a long, stamped "loans" that never will be self-addressed envelope.

Steve Lemke Cracraft Mrs. Mrs. Keith R.Schultz Wedding bells ring for area couples Community Scene Jacque Phone 684-4433 Andre Photo Thomas M. Camann the groom's mother's home. Both the bride and groom at-, tended Lincoln High Manitowoc.

The groom is employed at Lakeside Packing Manitowoc. A delayed trip to Chicago is planned. Mr. and Mrs. Miller will reside at 3808 Rock Manitowoc.

Nelson-Schultz Trinity Lutheran Church, Manitowoc, was the scene of the wedding of Rebecca Lue Nelson and Keith Ralph Schultz. The Rev. C.R. Rosenow officiated. The couple's parents are Mr.

and Mrs. Orrin E. Nyhus of Almena, and Mr. and Mrs. Ralph Schultz, Route 1, Manitowoc.

Maid of honor, Cindy Rockow, was accompanied by the bride's daughters, Sarah, Melissa and Jenny Nelson, as bridesmaids. Manitowoc, and Carole J. Hansen of Manitowoc. Parents of the groom are Roger Miller of Rockford, 111., and Mrs. Gerald Schlei of Manitowoc.

Kim Miller and Todd Miller, sister and brother of the groom, Manitowoc, were honor attendants. A family dinner was held at i iiiiimjiiiiiiiiMiiiinni.il i.i.lliiiiiMmwiMiragKM mmmlmmaiimmmlmlimmlm Dear Ann Landers: I would like to provide an update for the woman who signed herself, "The Elephant in Petahima." She wanted to know what happened to the man who wanted to buried in his 1939 Dodge. I am that man. I am sorry to report that my wish could not be granted. Although I died eight years ago in Redding.

the Dodge was recalled by its maker three years before I was recalled by mine. Love It Here Dear Love: Yours is the first letter I have ver received from heaven. Next time please send your communication by satellite. The angel who delivered the message to my office was in terrible shap.e Her wings were tattered and she was exhausted. Worse yet, after 24 hours in Chicago, she didn't want to return to heaven.

You're welcome, Mayor Byrne.) Dear Ann Landers: I just got off the phone with one of our married children who was asking for a loan. I made excuses instead of coming right out and saying, "Your dad and I have to think about OUR future. When we are broke will you take care of us?" I know it was the right thing to say. So why do I feel guilty? It seems that one of their sons has written a check that has to be covered, or it's trouble with the law. Incidentially, they still Reduce temperature Glass absorbs heat and bakes faster.

If you use glass dishes for baking, reduce the temperature by 25 degrees. If isn't necessary to lower the oven temperature for casseroles, meats or pies baked in glass dishes. producer, Hennesey, on opening day as the theatre is sold out from under him. Circumstances look as if Hennesey will produce his 13th flop and Ruby's starry-eyed dreams begin to fade. Suddenly, Dick and his buddy Lucky come to the rescue finding their battleship an ideal stage for the show.

Joan and Lucky fix Mona's wagon by making her seasick and she is unable to perform. As a last resort, Ruby is placed in the lead and with the use of Dick's spur of the moment songs is an instant smash. Arrived on bus this morning and the toast of Broadway tonight. The Broadway dream comes true. Tickets for the show can be Pieces repaid? Torn In Michigan Dear First, a kid who kites a check should be made to face the consequences.

If he knows Grandpa will rush to the rescue, he will probably do it again. Second: It's OK to help married children if they are hardworking and responsible. But all loans should bebusinesslike transactions. To float a second loan when the first one hasn't been paid is foolish. Kids who get mad at parents because they refuse to give or loan them money are playing a game called "blackmail." Don't go for it.

Dear Ann Landers: Our.beloved grandmother died at 95. When she became ter minally ill, we discussed her burial plans to make sure we. louowea ner wisnes. one aia not want a casket and preferred cremation. Someone suggested, as an alternative, that she donate her body to medical science.

She agreed. It is un- Lamaze classes to begin The next series of Lamaze classes, at Calumet Memorial Hospital, will be starting soon. If you are expecting a baby some time during the months of September, October, November or December make that decision now to help yourself create a postitive birth experience. Through Lamaze, parents are educated on what to expect during labor and delivery as well as offered various techniques they can use to stay in control of the process. With mother awake and alert at the time of delivery and with father present and assisting, baby will benefit from the important bonding that can take place immediately.

For more information, call Kathy Neumeyer at 775-4831. purchased in advance by calling 684-1171 or by stopping in at the ticket office at 1402 Clark is a noble contribution tol medical science. The body is left in the hospital and treated with respect. The name of the deceased is listed in a booklet. along with others who have made the same decision.

We had amemorial service in our church for grandmother, and it was much less draining than the traditional funeral we had for my mother-in-law several months later. I'll tian DEGREE Karen A. Nelson, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Myles A.

Nelson, 2402 Sdver Creek Road, Manitowoc, was among the candidates to receive degrees at the University of Wisconsin-La Crosse. She majored in elementary education. A 1977 graduate of Lincoln High School, Manitowoc, Miss Nelson is active in Varsity basketball, Soccer Club, In-tramurals, Student Wisconsin Education Association and assistant basketball coach at LaCrosse Logan High School. Story Wagon Program Monkeys and monkey business figure in the July 19 through July 23 programs of the Manitowoc-Calumet Story Wagon, which makes 12 scheduled stops throughout both counties through Aug. 13.

The Story Wagon presents programs for children and circulates library books. Complete schedules are availabe at system libraries in Brillion, Chilton, Kiel, Manitowoc, New Holstein, and Two Rivers. Monkeys cause problems for a peddler in "Caps For Sale" by Esphyr Slobodkina, which will be presented as a skit by Story Wagon leader Diane Slivka-Ouimette and her assistants Pam Stecker and Steve Gerndt. They will also stage one of H.A. Rey's Curious George" stories as a puppet show.

Fineer Dlavs and a nnem. his disturbing fly-winged figures, earned him praise for joining unlikely objects or images in a visual and intellectual context. His current sculptures employ golf clubs, washing machine agitators, fishing lures, and many other everyday objects in colorful studies of energy. The Rahr-West exhibition has been dedicated by Balsley to the memory of Jim Morgan, Kansas City art collector and patron, who was killed in a motorcycle accident earlier this year. Discussing his reasons for the dedication, Balsley stated, "Jim was a special friend to a large group of artists all over the country.

He was a unique dealer and collector who left a small tear in all of our hearts. I want to dedicate this show to him." John Balsley and his wife, Diane, will be present at Sunday's opening reception to greet visitors. Balsley is associate professor of art at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. His sculpture will remain on exhibition through Aug. 29..

artists and craftspersohs displaying and selling their works. The Arts Center's current exhibitions "The Alternative Image," "Portable Treasures," "Perspectives: Carol Kumata' and "Postmasters," will also be on display. The festival is open from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. Saturday and Sunday.

For further Information, contact the John Michael Kohler Arte Center, 608 New York P.O. Box 489, Sheboygan, 53081. I Excellence in writing award The first annual awards for Excellence in Writing were awarded in ceremonies held at Washington, D.C. by the Humana the National League for Nursing. Kathryn Menshon, vice-president of Humana, left, congratulates Susan Johnston, third place winner, center.for her paper on "The Use of the Rines Model in Differentiating Professional and Technical Nursing Practice.

Margaret Walsh, right, is executive director of the organization. Ms. Johnston is presently on the staff of Lakeshore Technical Institute, Cleveland. Gollata Studio Lisa M. Wergin and Mark Nickels Couple engaged Mrs.

Donald Kickland, 4102 Rock Manitowoc, announces the engagement of her daughter, Lisa Marie Wergin, to Mark Nickels, son of Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Nickels, 1511 Cherry Road, Manitowoc. Miss Wergin is the daughter of the late Mr. Jerome Wergin.

She is a 1979 graduate of Lincoln High School, Manitowoc. Employed at Americana of Green Bay, the bride-elect is attending the respiratory therapy program at Northeast Wisconsin Technical Institute, Green Bay. Her fiance is a 1978 graduate of Lincoln High School. He is employed at Plumb Orchard and Garden Supply The Grindstone and Dr. Freud's Institute of Fine Recording, all of Manitowoc.

He will be attending Lakeshore Technical Institute, Cleveland, this fall. Peter Quince Performing Company preparing for 'Dames at Sea9 Cretton and Mrs. Mark A. Cretton at 108 N. Berge Valders.

Bonin-Cretton Exchanging wedding promises July 10 at St. John United Church of Christ, Manitowoc, was Donna Dorris Bonin and Mark Allan Cretton. The Rev. Gerald W. Schrankler officiated.

The couple's parents are Mr. and Mrs. Hubert Silver Creek 'Road, Manitowoc, and Mr. and Mrs. Nerbert Cretton of Mishicot.

Mrs. Alan Sieracki, sister of the bride, Newton, and John Skwor of Mishicot were honor attendants. Bridesmaids were Miss Chris Seiner, Two Rivers; Miss Lynn Cretton, sister of the groom, Mishicot; Mrs. Louis Rusch, sister of the bride, Manitowoc, and Mrs. Jerry Farr, sister of the bride, Manitowoc.

Groomsmen were Shane Rusch, Manitowoc; Jim Siebert, Two Rivers; Dave Schuette, Cato; and Alan Sieracki of Newton. Ushers were Lou Rusch and Ann Cretton. A reception was held at Doolan's of Francis Creek. The bride is a 1978 graduate of Lincoln High School. She is a factory worker at Invincible Metal Furniture Co.

Cretton is a 1976 graduate of Mishicot Community High School. He also is employed as a factory worker at Invincible Metal Furniture. Upon return from a wedding trip to the Wisconsin Dells, Mr. and Mrs. Cretton will reside at Route 2, Two Rivers.

Dietricb-Camann Karen Lee Dietrich, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Dietrich Sr. of Reedsville, became the bride of Thomas Mark Camann, son of the Rev. and Mrs.

Francis Camann of Bear Creek, Wis. The ceremony took place 2:30 p.m. today at Zion Lutheran Church, Wayside. The Rev. Gerald Witt-maier and the Rev.

Francis Camann officiated. Sister of the bride, Mrs. Greg Olejniczak, and Joel Camann, brother of the groom, were honor attendants. Other bridal attendants were Roxanne Rolland, Mrs. Lawrence Dietrich and Beth Camann, sister of the Groomsmen were Daniel Camann, brother of the groom, Lawrence Dietrich brother of the bride, and Lee Sauer.

Brother of the bride, James Dietrich, and Todd Christian-son ushered the couple's guests to their seats. A dinner and reception were held at Michiels Brillion Inn. The bride, a 1978 graduate of Reedsville High School and a 1980 graduate of Lakeshore Technical Institute, Cleveland, is employed as an optometric assistant at Appleton Eye Clinic. Camann is a 1977 graduate of Reedsville High School. He was graduated in 1982 from Concordia College, River Forest, 111.

He is employed at Manitowoc Co. as a computer programmer. Mr. and Mrs. Camann will reside at Reedsville.

Leiker-Miller Sandra Jean Leiker, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Dale Leiker Jr. of Manitowoc, and Steven Wayne Miller, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Richard Miller of Kirkland, were married June 12. The wedding took place at St. Jude Catholic Church, Redmond, Wash. Maid of honor was Debra Leiker. sister nf the bride.

Manitowoc. Best Man was Todd Noble of Bellevue, Wash. Atten- dants were Ursula and Tom Malloy of Redmond, Wash. The bride is a 1970 graduate of Roncalli High School. She is a chief technologist of radiation therapy at Group Health Hospital, Seattle, Wash.

Miller is a 1971 graduate of Bellevue High School. He is employed at The Boeing Air- craft Everett, as a motive equipment operator. The couple honeymooned in Puerto Vallanta, Mexico. The will reside at Kirkland, Wash. Hansen-Miller Jennifer Lee Hansen and Robert Joseph Miller were married 4:30 p.m.

today at the Manitowoc Courthouse. Judge Fred Hazlewood officiated. The bride is the daughter of Robert fy. Hensen of 27 of Best man, Dan Schultz, brother of the groom, was assisted by Danny Nelson, son of the bride, as ringbearer. Paul Thundercloud and Al Raether were ushers.

A sit down dinner was held at the English Lake Inn for the reception. The bride is a 1970 graduate of Cumberland High School. Schultz is a 1970 graduate of Manitowoc Lutheran High School. A wedding trip to Michigan, Canada, and Niagra Falls was taken. Mr.

and Mrs. Schultz reside mother during that period from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. They must take time to unwind and get the help they need from their husband andor children in both the preparation and clean-up associated with the meal. Thank you for writing about the frustrations of the working mother at this time of the day.

Hopefully, it will stimulate women to take better care of themselves during the dinner hour. DEAR DR. BLAKER The last time I went with my husband to one of his business conventions, I was bothered by the kind of activities planned for the wives. In the past I had looked forward to the shopping outings and hours at the beauty parlor but since I have went back to working in the business world I see them as degrading. Am I being too sensitive? DEAR READER No, but your view of yourself has changed and so have your needs.

Why not get together with a couple of the other wives (and husbands who accompany their wives to the conventions) and plan some alternative activities? Down In the dumps? Write for Dr. laker's newsletter "Fighting Depression." Send SO cents and a stamped, self-addressed envelope to Dr. Blaker in care of this newspaper, P.O. Box 478, Radio City Station, New York, NY 10019. Write to Dr.

Blaker at the above address. The volume of mail prohibits personal replies, but questions of general interest will be discussed in future columns. (NKUSPAKn BNTBRnUSI ASSN.) aSSWSiSss ASK Dn. BLAKER Karen Blaker Ph.D. muiuiuwuc, aunng me oi- "MonKey by Bernice ice hourse of 10 a.m.

to 8 p.m. Wells Carlson will further carry Tickets can be purchased at the out the monkey-business time of the performance. theme. John Balsley exhibit to open.at Rahr West Working mom's trauma night stardom on Broadway, a small town girl named Ruby arrives via bus from Centerville, Utah, totoing only her dancing shoes. Taken under the wings of the understanding chorus girl of a 42nd Street production, Joan, Ruby is allowed into the cast of "Dames at Soon after, Dick, a promising songwriter appears on the scene as a sailor destined to fall in love with Ruby.

The temperamental star of the show, Mona Kent, is resentful towards Ruby. Feeling that Dick is a prize worth having, Mona causes problems in Ruby's relationship with Dick, through her persuasive dealing with the sailor. Disaster strikes the show's The Rahr-West Museum will open an exhibition of recent sculpture by John Balsley with a public reception 1 p.m. to 4 p.m. this Sunday.

The exhibition features more than 30. pieces from the Milwaukee artist's "Moderne Man" series. Constructed of colorful "found each piece communicates Balsley's expression of man's interaction with the world and people around him. In many of the pieces, wire "energy lines" from a central figure to spheres, cubes, and other three-dimensional geometric shapes. In a recent interview for Art Express Magazine, Balsley talked about these lines and his work: "I really thought of them as eye lines, energy lines that come from the brain or from the central nervous system; from the heart, from the guts, from the viscera.

They're similar to. the tensions between people in a conversation, positive and negative feelings "Balsley's career extends from the early 1960's when his machocrenched motorcycle sculptures and, a decade later, The Peter Quince Performing Company will present "Dames at Sea" 8:15 p.m. Thursday, Friday and Saturday, Aug. 5-7. They also will have a performance 2 p.m.

Saturday afternoon. The company is preparing for the musical in this, the company's 14th season. Members of the cast include: Lori Sitzman as Ruby, and Kevin Vogt as Dick. Mona is played by Andrea Gadzinski and Becky Kucchenbecker is Joan. Dave Bouffard plays Hennesey, Dave Burtard plays Lucky, James Schuette is the Captain and the Script Girl is Betsy Gigure.

'Chorus members include: David Sitzman, Cheryl Dem-sien, Perry Smith, Dave Neuser, Chris Maloney, Lisa Weyenberg, Wayne Heili, Marilyn Larson, Sue Jacobi, Shannon Kuchenbecker, Pam Schultz, Greg Rank, Mike Witc-zak, Sandy Sporreder, Sue Owaski, Sarah Gigure, Kevin Plekan, Tim Gadzinski, Jeff Blashka and Todd Blashka. "Dames at Sea" is a light upbeat musical. The plot unfolds in a star-struck manner: With aspirations toward over KOYal KniShtS. iwiiguie, busy winning The Royal Knights Drum and Bugle Corps had a hectic fun filled weekend over the 4th of July as they marched in nine parades and performed in three competitive shows during three days of travel in Wisconsin and Illinois, The Corps was third and fourth in the open class shows "Hi took a first place in drum execution at Franklin Park, I1T. With a young Corps, average age 13, this was an exceptional accomplishment over the five Corps.

The entertaining group then 'marched in the Sussex Lion Daze parade July 11 and took first place for Drum ana uugie Corps while being judged with other units. All the oarades. this weekend Marinette and Kewaunee, and shows are practice for compe-tion in the Drum Corps International Show to be held in Montreal, Canada, during the week Aug. 16-21 against 100 other Drum Corps. By Karen Blaker, Ph.D.

DEAR DR. BLAKER -Does anyone really appreciate the dinner-hour trauma of a working mother? I don't think so. After a tense, demanding day just as difficult as her husband's she is expected to walk into the house and begin immediately to deal with the children, do chores that were left unfinished in the morning and cook the dinner. Then, after the meal, she cleans up the mess. All this before she can unwind from a day that can easily start as early as 5:30 a.m.

I wish there were some way to stop this "dinner madness." DEAR READER Shifting gears from the professional to the domestic routine is not automatic. It takes time to unwind and rethink. And yet, most women try to take on home responsibilities the second they walk into the house. When you think about taking a few moments to unwind, remember that men have traditionally required and received this necessary ritualistic space and time for themselves at the end of their work day. The problem Is that it was usually the woman who made certain he had that time.

Otherwise, he might also have been swept up into the hurricane of activity that often pervades a busy home with growing children. Men are not used to mak- a certain that their women the same privilege. As a result, most women must take on that responsibility themselves. They must become (heir own good Marquette honor list Timothy Bauer, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Lyle S. 15th Manitowoc, earned a place on the Dean's Honor List for the academic achievement during the second semester of the 1981-82 academic year at Marquette University. Bauer grade point average was 3.61. Makes Dean's List The University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee has placed Elizabeth Anne Mohr on the Dean's Honor List for the spring semester. Miss Mohr is a junior in the School of Engineering.

She is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Tom Mohr, 1227 S. 12th Manitowoc. Separated and Divorced The Two Rivers Lakeshore Separated and Divorced Group will hold its regular bi-monthly meeting 7 p.m.

Monday, July 19, at St. Luke Church Hall, corner of Jefferson and 19th St. Any interested person is welcom. Bring a friend. It is an ecumenical group which meets the first and third Mondays of each month.

For further information, call Winnie De Bauche (794-1774, Claudia Havlichek (793-4122) of St. Luke Rectory (793-2236) Daughters of Isabella The Daughters of Isabella, Mystical Rose Circle 372 will have their quarterly communion and Mass at 9:30 a.m. Sunday, July 18, at Sacred Heart Catholic Church, Manitowoc. Manitowoc 64 bike ride The Lakeshore Pedallers are sponsoring a Manitowoc 64 mile bike ride Sunday, Aug. 1.

Registration will be from 7 a.m. until 10 a.m. at Silver Creek Park, Manitowoc. There will be a fee of $4.50. This will cover the cost of the sag wagon, food and patches.

For more information contact Bob Ptephani, 682-2767. Outdoor festival to be held at Kohler Hmong Dancers, children's theatre and puppet performances and a classical guitar trio are just a sampling of the wide variety of entertainment planned for the 12 annual outdoor arts festival at the John1 Michael Kohler Arts Center Saturday and Sunday, July and 18. All entertainment is open to the public at no charge. Several new acts will be featured 4hts year, as well as favorites from previous arts festivals, st of Sheboygan. In addition to the entertainment stage, other activities at tje festival will include over 130 I A it.

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